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“We send this message to you and your family for the loss of someone so precious. There are no words that can truly ease the pain of a sudden loss...Read More »
1 of 13 | Posted by: The Kindred Family

“Dear Beth and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Gary passing suddenly. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I am going to miss him, and i...Read More »
2 of 13 | Posted by: Samantha Smiley

“Dear Beth and family, So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Kevin at this time. Please know that...Read More »
3 of 13 | Posted by: Paulette Parrott

“Jenn, Brad, Kirk and all the family and friends. My condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May your sorrow soon...Read More »
4 of 13 | Posted by: Janice Plautz

“I worked with Gary at Page & Hill right after he graduated from high school. We shared many hours of cruising through Clarinda, going to races, and...Read More »
5 of 13 | Posted by: Kenny McClarnon

“You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May loving memories get you through this pain. If we can do anything for you, please call us. ”
6 of 13 | Posted by: Jack and Sharon Stickler

“Beth and family I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing.I am so glad I got to speak with you at Jack's benefit.My prayers are with you,your family...Read More »
7 of 13 | Posted by: Jacky Rucker

“So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Big O & Maggie ”
8 of 13 | Posted by: Bob & Kathy Oetken

“Daddy: The Lord called you home too soon. I was not ready to let you go; but let you go I must. Please know I will always love you and you will...Read More »
9 of 13 | Posted by: Jennifer Gray Montagne

“We are so sorry to hear about Gary our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Millie(Baker)and Sam Lamb Classmates of 1969 ”
10 of 13 | Posted by: Millie Lamb

“Beth and Family~ My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this time of Sorrow. I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one. God Bless you all! ”
11 of 13 | Posted by: Diana Freshour

“Beth,Kerri,Eric,Alan,Jennifer,and Jessica and to all your families. I'm was so sad to hear the loss of Gary! My thoughts and prayers go out to you...Read More »
12 of 13 | Posted by: Staci Young Zwerk

“Thinking of you guys as you grieve such a loss! Love ya all and thinking of you! If you need anything we are here! Reading this poem made me think of...Read More »
13 of 13 | Posted by: Karen and Jeff Williams

Graveside memorial services for Gary Gray, age 57, of Villisca, IA, who died Thursday, August 20, 2009 at Montgomery County Memorial Hospital, Red Oak, Iowa will be held Sunday, August 23, 2009 at 2:00 p.m. at the North Grove Cemetery, rural Clarinda, Iowa with Reverend Andrew Rubenking officiating. Burial with military rites by American Legion Ker-A-Vor Post 251 will be in the North Grove Cemetery. Memorials may be directed to the family. Memories and condolences may be shared with the family on our website at, under Obituaries. Arrangements were entrusted to the Ritchie Funeral Home of Clarinda, Iowa.

Gary Lynn Gray was born September 8, 1951 at Clarinda, IA to Arthur Russell Gray and Mary (Robinson) Gray. He had three brothers and one sister. Gary was a graduate of Clarinda High School and attended college for two years. He served his country in the United States Army, from 1972-1979, during the Vietnam War and was also stationed in Germany, receiving the National Defense Service Medal, Good Conduct Medal and the Sharpshooter Badge. On December 31, 1984, he was united in marriage to Elizabeth Smith at Security, Colorado. They have four children, Eric, Alan, Jennifer and Kerri.

Gary was a truck driver for Midwest Viking Trucking Company and John Beem Implement. He was a member of the American Legion Ker-A-Vor Post 251. Gary enjoyed tractor pulls, fishing and was active in horse shows when he was young. He had a great interest in Harley's. Most important to Gary was his family and truly enjoyed being with his grandchildren.

Preceding Gary in death were his parents, Art and Mary; brothers, Kyle Gray, Russell Gray; sister, Gail Thurman and nephew, Jason Gray.

Left to cherish his memory are his wife Beth Gray of Villisca, IA; sons, Eric Gray of Corning, Iowa and Alan Gray and wife Shelly of Nodaway, Iowa; daughters, Jennifer Montagne and husband Kirk of Glenwood, Iowa and Kerri Pace of Villisca, Iowa; grandchildren, Jessica Pace, Bradley Maxwell, Chelsey Gray, Braden Gray, Payton Gray, Addison Gray, Walker Pace, Payton Montagne, Kenley Montagne; brother, Kevin Grayof Clarinda, Iowa; nieces, nephews and many friends.

Gary will be greatly missed by his friends and family,
but the memories will remain in our hearts forever .
May God grant comfort and strength to those who mourn Gary's passing.